Let's look at how these first friendships develop. 3-, 4-, and 5-year-olds are at the delightful stage when they discover the joy of playing with others. Children approach new friendships in different ways, depending on their experiences and temperament. Some may rush in and want to play with everybody, and others will watch from the sidelines for a while before jumping in. All these approaches are normal and need to be respected. If your child is reticent about making friends, you can support his friend-making style and at the same time create ways for him to develop confidence and friendships at home.