Children develop best in a stable environment where they are valued, loved and listened to. They prefer an orderly environment rather than a chaotic one. And they need someone in that environment who will help them learn to be safe and sociable. This is where discipline comes in. Discipline is a necessary part of parenting, yet it is often misunderstood. It is usually associated with punishment – smacking, humiliation and other types of censuring action. Positive discipline teaches children about appropriate behaviour and helps them develop a sense of other. It also encourages them to take responsibility for their own actions. It doesn't involve physical harm or verbal put-downs. However, it does require firmness and a willingness to treat children with respect, even if they don't always respond to us in kind.